Obituaries

Reverend Father Roger Gabriel Nilles

June 09, 1933 - August 04, 2023

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Obituary For Reverend Father Roger Gabriel Nilles

Madison - Reverend Father Roger Gabriel Nilles entered peacefully to eternal life on August 4, 2023 at the age of 90 at St. John’s on the Lake in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. He was born on June 9, 1933 in Madison, Wisconsin. Father Nilles is survived by many beloved nieces and nephews and predeceased by his parents, Mathias John and Anna Marie, née Omson, and his siblings: Ruth (Nilles) Dollhausen, James E. Nilles, and Joan (Nilles) Gebhardt.

According to Robert Booth Fowler in Catholics On State Street, “One was Fr. Roger Nilles, who served for a decade starting in 1967. From Madison, Fr. Nilles came to St. Paul’s when he was thirty-three years old with some Catholic service experience behind him, and he was known as a friendly, level-headed, down-to-earth, stable participant in the life of St. Paul’s in those heady days. He was not at the forefront of political or Christian Radicalism, but he seemed to understand others who were and was well known and appreciated for his ability to work calmly with all sorts of priests, students, and community members. While at St. Paul’s he studied for and received his Ph.D. in counseling and guidance. He was often involved with counseling students and others, and his 1:30 p.m. Mass was a popular one. When he left St. Paul’s he continued in the priesthood, retiring in 2010 as the longtime and fondly regarded pastor of St. Peter’s in east Madison.”

After attending Grade School at St. James, Madison, and High School at St. Francis Minor Seminary, Milwaukee, Fr. Nilles attended St. Francis Seminary, Milwaukee; received an undergraduate degree from Loras College, Dubuque, Iowa; and a Master’s Degree from the Theological College of the Catholic University of America, Washington, D.C., He earned a Doctorate in Education from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Fr. Nilles was ordained to the sacred priesthood by The Most Reverend William P. O’Connor, Bishop of Madison, May 30, 1959 at St. Raphael Cathedral, Madison.

Fr. Nilles began serving in the Diocese of Madison as Associate Pastor of St. Paul Parish, Beloit and St. Paul University Parish, Madison. He continued his service in the diocese as Pastor of St. Francis Xavier Parish, Lake Mills, with Mission of St. Mary Magdalene, Johnson Creek; St. Victor Parish, Monroe, and St. Peter Parish, Madison, where he retired from full-time active ministry as Pastor Emeritus. He also served as an Instructor and Assistant Principal at Beloit Catholic High School, Beloit; as Priest Senate-President; on the Conciliation and Arbitration Board, and on the St. Raphael Board.

In retirement, Fr. Nilles continued to serve the community at St. Peter Catholic Church when he was needed to fill in for a Mass, funeral, or wedding. He additionally continued offering communion to residents at Mendota Mental Health.

The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Peter Catholic Church, 5001 N. Sherman Avenue, Madison, Wisconsin, on Monday, August 14, 2023 at 11:00 am. The Most Reverend Donald J. Hying, Bishop of Madison, will celebrate the Holy Mass, with The Reverend Father Kevin Dooley as homilist. Visitation at St. Peter Catholic Church will be held on Sunday August 13, 2023 from 4:00 pm to 8:00 pm with a prayer service at 7:30 pm, and on Monday, August 14, 2023 from 9:00 am until shortly before the Funeral Mass. A luncheon will be served at the parish hall immediately following the Mass. Interment will take place after the funeral luncheon at Resurrection Cemetery, 2705 Regent St., Madison. In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made payable to St. Paul Catholic Student Center, Madison.

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Services

13 Aug

Visitation

04:00 PM - 08:00 PM

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13 Aug

Prayer Service

07:30 PM

St. Peter Catholic Church 5001 North Sherman Avenue Madison, WI 53704 Get Directions »
14 Aug

Visitation

09:00 AM - 11:00 AM

St. Peter Catholic Church 5001 North Sherman Avenue Madison, WI 53704 Get Directions »
14 Aug

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 AM

St. Peter Catholic Church 5001 North Sherman Avenue Madison, WI 53704 Get Directions »
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  • August 12, 2023

    what a heart breaking loss of a wonderful friend and pastor. Wish we could be there to say goodbye properly but you are in our hearts. Fr. Roger always will be, and we will never ever forget what a wonderful influence you were in our lives at St Peters. we love you, Jack and Mary Dillon

  • August 11, 2023

    My wife and I were married by Father Nilles in 1971 at St. Paul's on State Street. We both remember him as a sweet and gentle man who helped us make our passage into married life. God be with him. Jeff and Jane Furst

  • August 09, 2023

    Would also like to publicallly thank Jill and Seyoum Mengesha for the diligent loving care they provided for Fr Roger for the last 5# years . Jill is his niece and helped make his last years as loved, happy and comfortable as possible. Thank you both from the bottom of our hearts Eddie and Mary Saur

  • August 09, 2023

    Words cannot convey the magnitude of Fr Roger's impact on so so many lives. He was my cousin, pastor and good friend. He touched our lives with weddings(ours53 yrs ago) baptisms, funerals as he did for so many. He loved his land, golf , bluebirds, nature and serving us all. He had abounding kindness and compassion and a keen sense of humor often rendered with a straight face! We will miss him tremendously and thank God for his presence in our lives and in all he touched. Rest in peace dear cousin Fr Roger— Mary and Ed Saur

  • August 09, 2023

    Condolences from The Lemberger family. He was a great friend and companion. Joe Lemberger, Jr

  • August 09, 2023

    I remember Father Nilles from my time working at St. Paul's in the early 1970s when I was a student and activist. He was always a calming, positive presence and a good man and priest. May he rest in peace!

  • August 07, 2023

    Reverend Father Nilles family: Thinking of you at this time. I had attended St Peters all the time Fr. Nilles was at the Parish. A well like pastor and all around person to serve the parish & and needs of the people. MY SYMPATHY.

  • August 07, 2023

    Fr. Roger was a good man! Presided over our wedding. Baptized our Children and was good to my family! Always wanted to talk about Nascar and Dale Jr with me. Fun! We will miss you Fr. May you rest in peace! The Bauer Family, Scott, Sheri, Sterling, Skylar and Sierra

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