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Michael “Mike” Steven Bentin

July 17, 1968 - July 11, 2024

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Obituary For Michael “Mike” Steven Bentin

Michael “Mike” Steven Bentin, age 55, passed away at home with family at his side on Thursday, July 11, 2024, from complications of chronic pneumonia and Vater Syndrome, a birth defect that challenged Mike his entire life. He was born on July 17, 1968, in Madison, WI, entered into the custody of the State of Wisconsin and was eventually adopted at 3 years of age by Steven Bentin and Regina (Hunter) Bentin.

Mike attended elementary school in both Madison and Sun Prairie, Marquette Middle School (now O’Keefe Middle School) in Madison and Madison East High School. After graduating from East, he attended UW-La Crosse for one year before moving to California to live near his mother, Regina, and work in the daycare industry. During this time, he traveled to Russia, visiting Moscow and other memorable places. He then returned to Wisconsin and was employed in daycare before beginning employment with the Madison Metropolitan School District as a special educational assistant at both the elementary and high school levels. He held that position until medical reasons forced him to retire. During his time with MMSD, Mike served as an assistant tennis coach at East, an assistant basketball and softball coach at Madison West and an assistant basketball and softball coach at Vel Phillips Memorial High School.

Vater Syndrome left Mike with many physical challenges which he faced courageously and fearlessly his entire life. He was fiercely independent, a trait that was best seen in his determination to participate in athletics. Prior to high school, Mike played baseball in the Northside Little League in Madison and wrestled in elementary school tournaments. At East High School he participated in basketball, soccer and cross country as well as being the place kicker on the football team in his senior year. His love of sports continued through his coaching as an adult.

Mike was a very compassionate soul, especially with young people. In spite of dealing with chronic pain his entire adult life, he retained an ability to relate to children, especially those with special needs. An avid reader and a collector of team hats from college and professional sports teams, he also enjoyed golfing and watching sports on television. In addition, Mike loved dogs and cats. He helped raise Penny, his family’s first dog, from a puppy and gave a good home to four different cats, three of whom he adopted from the Dane County Humane Society and one he rescued after watching it be thrown from a moving car.

Mike is survived by his parents, Steven Bentin, Maureen McGilligan-Bentin and Regina Mantei. In addition, he will be missed by his brothers, Kyle (Ali) and Jeremy (Ana) as well as nephews Hudson and Rory and niece Nora and his many aunts, uncles and cousins.

He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Jake and Jean Hunter, Bill and Marion McGilligan and Harold and Esther Bentin.

Mike’s family would like to extend their deepest gratitude to SSM Health doctors Maciej Czechowski (“Dr. C”), Michael Allan and Frank Bendewald for their care and surgical skill in extending Mike’s life in his latter years, the late Dr. Thomas DeMeester at the University of Southern California Medical Center for rebuilding Mike’s digestive system when he was in his early 20’s, and Dr. Megan Haberlein, Dr. Doug Hobson and the nurses and staff in the ICU at St. Mary’s Hospital in Madison. We especially want to recognize the dedicated floor nurses at St. Mary’s Hospital for their wonderful care during Mike’s often lengthy stays.

A visitation will be held from 10:00 A.M. to 12:00 P.M. on Saturday, August 17, 2024, at Ryan Funeral Home, 2418 N. Sherman Ave, Madison, WI.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to: Madison Cat Project, 3205 Latham Drive, Madison, WI 53713 https://madisoncatproject.kindful.com/ and or Dane County Humane Society, 5132 Voges Road, Madison, WI 53718 https://www.giveshelter.org/how-to-help/donate

All of us who loved Mike are very proud of how he encouraged and inspired so many over his lifetime to not let physical challenges or being different keep them from experiencing a full life. His remarkable life should be celebrated and remembered!

We miss you, Mike!

To view and sign this guestbook, please visit: www.ryanfuneralservice.com.

Ryan Funeral Home & Cremation Services

2418 N Sherman Ave

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17 Aug

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10:00 AM - 12:00 PM

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  • August 10, 2024

    We share in your sorrow but also celebrate Mike's life. He had many challenges over his life and enhanced the life of many as you have shown. Although we did not meet Mike his father Steve and wife Maureen are our current neighbors at Cherokee. We are not surprised what a special soul Mike was. Warmly, Elaine Parton & Lisa Spain

  • August 07, 2024

    Our thoughts are with you, Steve, Maureen, Reggie, and all your family as you navigate through this tumultuous period with the passing of Michael. His memory will forever be cherished, and his spirit will live on in the hearts of those who loved him.

  • August 06, 2024

    Steve and Maureen- So sorry to hear about Mike. We were saddened to read Mike's obituary. May your memories of him bring you peace. Dan and Barb

  • July 31, 2024

    Our deepest sympathies, Steve and Maureen, in the loss of your very special son, Mike, may he rest in peace. Thank you for sharing.

  • July 31, 2024

    I know a small portion of Michael's life from conversations with Maureen. Michael was lucky to have many people who loved him both during his life and when he left his family and friends. ... ... Losing someone is always tragic, especially so when the loss is a child. Michael was a child to Steven, Maureen, and Regina regardless of his age. No parent should ever have to live through the loss of a child, but unfortunately, this happens. ... ... When I lost someone my Father offered these words of support and condolence to me, which I now pass on to you. ... ... "Each day, a little easier" ... ... Ron Gollonik

  • July 21, 2024

    Our condolences and sympathy on your loss.

  • July 20, 2024

    Mike was a good friend, coach, and a person who continued to amaze me despite his physical limitations. He coached my daughters in basketball and spent many days with our family. One memory that always brings a smile to my face was an evening at the batting cage at Vitense. The girls were on the softball team and we stopped by for some practice. After the girls finished, Mike picked up the bat and proceeded to hit every ball pitched to him. Afterwards, I smiled, shook my head and asked, "Mike how, with one eye and little or no depth perception, can you hit the ball like that?" Mike smiled that crooked smile of his and said, "No one ever told me I couldn't, so I learned how." That was Mike. May you rest in peace my friend.

  • July 19, 2024

    RIP Mike!! I'll be thinking about you up in Heaven watching some basketball 🏀!!! Grew up with Mike was in many classes with him elementary, middle and HS! Great guy! Was always a pleasure. My condolences Tabatha!!

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