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Harriet L. Instefjord

February 04, 1929 - November 19, 2023

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Obituary For Harriet L. Instefjord

Verona – Harriet L. Instefjord, age 94, passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 19, 2023 in Lansing, IA. She was born in Osseo, WI, on February 4, 1929, the daughter of Lauritz and Mina (Myhre) Oftedahl. Harriet married Alvin Instefjord in LaCrosse, WI on October 25, 1947. Her most beloved role in life was as a wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She always went out of her way to make others happy, especially her family, whom she loved spending time with. Harriet was a special woman who was welcoming and encouraging to everyone she met. She collected many dear friends during her lifetime and cherished time spent with all of them. Harriet enjoyed traveling. Some of her favorite trips were to Florida with her husband Al, annual family golf reunions but Norway was her favorite. Harriet was an animal lover and had a special fondness for dogs, especially her best dog, Corey. She was involved in her Church helping with dinners, coffee hour, quilting, communion, singing in the choir, and WELCA. Harriet had a wonderful life and left us all with precious memories we will hold close forever.

Harriet is survived by her four children, Carol (Lahcen) Boutni, Cathryn (Dirk) Weber, Connie (David) Bulman, and Jon Instefjord; grandchildren, Leila (Rodney) Doyal, Jamila (Dave) Dozark, Zeina (Lance) Froman, Paul (Catherine) Weber, Brian (Karen) Weber, Scott (Jessica) Weber , Heather Sopousek, Seth (Brittany)Bulman, Kelsey Bulman, Nick (Katie) Instefjord, Sara (Luke) Alexander, Amanda Instefjord, Payton (Brittany) Rockwell, Brittney Rockwell, and Brendan Rockwell; 23 great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her husband of 54 years, Alvin Instefjord, an infant granddaughter, Jessica, her parents, Lauritz and Mina Oftedahl; and her four brothers; Duff (Mary), Mel(Dorothy), Reidar(Toy), and Pete(Edie) Oftedahl. Also her in laws; Barb (Fritz) Klatt, Ozzie(Ethelyn) Instefjord, Ag(Jack) Smith, Hilde(Don) Aune, Nord Instefjord, Harold Instefjord, Val Instefjord, Alvina Gere, Julian Instefjord.

A Memorial Service will be held at 11:00am on Saturday, December 16, 2023, at ST. JAMES LUTHERAN CHURCH, 427 S. Main St., Verona, with Rev. Peter Narum presiding. A visitation will be held from 9:30am until the time of service.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Harriet’s name to St. James Lutheran Church, Alzheimer’s Association, or the American Cancer Society.

To view and sign this guestbook, please visit: www.ryanfuneralservice.com.

Ryan Funeral Home & Cremation Services

Verona Chapel

220 Enterprise Drive

608-845-6625

Services

16 Dec

Visitation

09:30 AM - 11:00 AM

St. James Lutheran Church 427 S. Main Street Verona, Wi 53593 Get Directions »
16 Dec

Memorial Service

11:00 AM

St. James Lutheran Church 427 S. Main Street Verona, Wi 53593 Get Directions »
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  • December 08, 2023

    Harriet was one of the kindest, most welcoming people we've ever known. We are happy to know she's reunited with Al...an amazing couple. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Such a beautiful guardian angel you now have. Sincerely, Dr Dan & Sue

  • December 06, 2023

  • December 05, 2023

    Mrs. Instefjord was a very special and wonderful caring person who will be very much missed by her family and the many friends she made. Eric P Hartwig

  • December 04, 2023

    We were so sorry to read of Miss Harriet's passing today. She was our precious neighbor for the best part of 20 years and we have missed her as she has transitioned to senior care and beyond. She was a wonderful neighbor, and just such a delight to be with. I will miss the hugs and smiles in the morning of the hallway when she was in senior living. Our love and prayers to Carol and family, Richard, and Sylvia.

  • November 29, 2023

    Harriet was one of my sweetest poll workers, working w/her on my job. Always happy to help. I knew her well an we talked often. She was so much like my mother. I loved hearing of her travels an family. God bless u all during these difficult times. Pat Anderson

  • November 28, 2023

    I met Harriet at Noel Manor where I work. She was always such a joy and so sweet. My deepest sympathies to her family, we are thinking of you at this difficult time❤️

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    Nancy Long sent Peace & Serenity Dishgarden for Harriet L. Instefjord - December 13, 2023

    With our deepest sympathies, Helen Myhre Nancy Long Larry Myhre Dennis Myhre Ellen Myhre Beverly Fischer

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