Obituaries

Jay- miss u like crazy! We're Scotty, Barney & Bill Hartwig there 2 welcome u? That's the picture I have in my heart. Hope u liked the motorcycle cake. I met Jay in 1991 @ Riverview. We often rode with the 5th Chapter on camping trips or just runs around the state. I went 2 5th Chapter mtgs every Fri @ community ctr on Atwood. There was fun nite every month. Even tho I wasn't a member, we were always welcome. I digress. I spent 4th of julys @ jays who always had the best fireworks! I thot of bringing some 2 Northport, but my hands were full. I'll take some to Kyle, who won't ansr his phone. If anyone sees him, PLEASE give him ur #. Jay- I believe it was my turn to treat dinner. I stopped by ur house around end of June & was surprised to find it open. I hollered @ u but didn't go in, of course. ALWAYS, ALWAYS U ARE LOVED, 20 yrs past the end of time! Do they have Harley's in heaven, or can u simply fly ur soul & spirit around since ur no longer attached 2 a body? Motorcycles MUST exist there! Ride on bro! Does any1 know Liz's phone #? Peggy & Craig- I'm sorry 4 ur pain & loss. u did fabulous job. Northport was a real love fest that Jay obviously deserved. Thx 4 day by day book, which I'd read in jays bathroom. Lol. Juju Farrar wishing u 🏍️,🌴🏖️4 ever! Come visit me in my dreams- 446-1388 if u have Liz's #. The phone I had it in died.

To Jay's family, I never knew Jay.What an amazing person he must have been.Peggy has been my friend for at least 50 yrs.I can only imagine how badly the family must hurt .I'll say a prayer for all of you. Adele

Jay has known me since I was in my 20's (about). When he first heard me sing he was at an awe and told me, that I had a memorizing voice. He was a very big support of mine. And I appreciated him so much. We compared stories and he gave me strength when I was going through thr worst times in my life,my mom passing,my best friend passing and what I was going through in my marriage. He was a great listener. And I as well. I knew his struggles, but not to this extent. This world is going to miss this man, and my heart is crushed. I'll miss you Barry, and between u and i,,you know how much. ❤️

Jay has been my friend forever, just because he is gone he will live in my memories and my heart. He will always be my brother!

Blessings of peace and love for all family and friends. Jay was so loved and such a presence in the community he will be terribly missed by many. K

I met Jay later in life in Recovery and he sure shared a lot of wise words with me in meetings. Then over time I found out he was my brothers age and they were friends for many years. Jay helped save my life. He always kind and a huge heart. I will think of him often and he will be truly missed. 🙏

Jay Yapp ain't right. I see a day when we'll once again ride together; laugh together; and embrace each other. Until that day, know you'll be on my mind - with that smile that laugh those bibs that hat. Until then brother... Rockhead

Jay, what a BIG, big heart, and a giving and honest heart. I remember Jay from my first few months of AA meetings, and he was a light. Be at peace now, Jay. To Jay's family and loved ones, I am so sorry. My prayer for you is that his memory will be a blessing, and you all get a lot of support to get through the hard days. He will always be with you.

Met Jay in the Riverview AA clubhouse back in 1991 or so. Already knew hos brother Craig. My friend in recovery and outside of it.

I've known Jay since he was around 12. He hung out with my younger brother Scotty. He was no Saint growing up, but then again, none of us Northsiders were. Say hello to everyone for me Jay! Steve Rothmann

Jay was a part of my youth back on the northside of Madison - back when there were a lot of shenanigans going on all the time - just having fun. Several years ago I moved up north but would run into him once in a while when I visited Madison. I am so sad to hear of his death - I have memories of him, and all the things our group did, in my head which I can't adequately put down on paper. I hope the demons are gone and you find the peace you deserve my old friend.

My deepest sympathies to the Yapp family. I met Jay a millennia ago when we lived on Vera Court. After we moved I never saw him again, but I did often think where is Jay or Peggy, like someone crossing your shadow. Rest in Peace Jay, we'll meet again.

I will miss your bear hugs, your honesty and your kindness. I will always hear your distinctive voice, and smile at your ability to pull off overalls as a staple to any outfit. We love and miss you. Keep shining~💙

Rest in peace Jay thanks for sharing your experience strength and hope. Your presence will be missed, but your spirit will always be with us.🙏🏼

So sorry to hear , nice guy , prayers sent for him and family , God bless

I met Jay at Sherman Middle school. He was quiet but was a big presence. We all " hung out" at Warner park. He was liked by all and he was good to everyone.

I love you Jay. Ride on friend

Jay was a good soul. I have known him for many years even before AA. I too was a Northsider and shared much laughter and sorrow with Jay. Although I hadn't seen Jay very often in the last few years he would drop a text to say hi. He will be missed by many. Doreen Hinrichs (Lincicum)

Dear Craig, Joann and Family Although I never knew Barry I'm sure is was an amazing man just like all the Yapp's I know. Please accept my sympathy and prayers to all of you. Praying for all of you Patty Steinhofer

I've known Jay for many years. Met him when we were 15. We hung out with the same group of friends. He spent time at my home and even baby sat my son. Never letting me forget he changed his poopy diaper. LOL. He told that story to a lot of people. He had a great sense of humor, very caring and helpful to so many people. Even my son when he was older, Jay tried to show him a different way of life. A sober life. I am grateful we were able to still hang out but with a different group of friends in later years. Rest in peace my friend. Give Jason a BIG hug from his mom. You will be missed- Melody Schmitt

Jay, I am lost without you. Getting on FB and seeing your daily prayer of encouragement and most importantly helping me understand my grandson's addiction to drinking. Gosh I will miss you and stopping by when I come home from Memphis. You were some kind of special. Ride hard and fast you've got many brothers up there to join in the fun. RIP MY FRIEND